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School refusal is when a child refuses and resists going to school. It can be a very serious problem that affects a lot of children and their families. There are many different reasons that can cause children to refuse to go to school. It can be connected often with children who struggle with sensory processing disorder.
Children with sensory processing disorder can experience sensory overload in a school setting and this can be very distressing for children which can make school a place they try to avoid. There are a lot of common causes for children to have school refusal. A child may be experiencing sensory issues at school that can lead to a child feeling overwhelmed, making school unbearable for them.
What Causes School Refusal?
Low mood or energy
Low self-esteem
Social or separation anxiety
Fear doing the wrong things
Poor relationships with staff
Rejection or bullying from peers
A preference to be home
Needs not being met
Sensory overload/dysregulation
Academic pressure
There are many fears that come along with going to school for many children. Children can fear social interaction or bullying at school. Difficulties with knowing their school work or being able to keep up with their school work load can cause them a lot of stress and anxiety.
Ideas To Help With School Refusal
Ask child’s therapist for ideas
Praise them when they go
Be encouraging
Positive talk about school
Gradually introduce school
Be empathetic to their feelings
Talk to your child about fears
Develop a support system
Meet with school counselor
Help develop friendships
There are a lot of signs to recognize school refusal. Some children will have headaches or stomachaches and other children will have excessive worrying, panic attacks or intense fear talking about school. Most children will tell lies to to not go to school.
You may notice that your child is keeping their distance from other students while at school or they may have no interest in school activities or they choose to spend more time alone. Most parents notice their child will have behavioral changes because they usually become are more irritable, aggressive, defiant or they notice they are not doing as well academically.
Signs of School Refusal
Struggles to stay at school
Crying, tantrums and anxiety
Begs to go back home
Avoids peers and teachers
Often absent from school
Frequently late for school
Refusing to go to school
Mood and behavior changes
Stomach pain and headaches
Refusing to get ready for school
Parents can identify what causes their child to refuse to go to school with some help from their child's therapists. Therapists can help with support and strategies to address your child's needs. They can assist you to slowly introduce your child back in school.
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DISCLAIMER: I have learned a lot over the years but I am still learning. Always do your own research and exercise sound judgment. I am not an occupational therapist or a physician. I am an adult who has sensory processing disorder, a sensory parent and a Grandma. The information on this website is not medical advice and does not replace the information that your child's therapists or medical professionals give you. These are just ideas that I have learned myself over the years of being a parent and an adult living with SPD. If you are concerned for your child, please always seek medical attention through a family doctor, pediatrician or therapist. This website is for awareness and support purposes only. Each child is different and what works for one child may not for another because all children have different sensory needs. Please always consult with a professional.
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