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Sensory Processing Disorder School Refusal 

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Sensory Processing Disorder School Refusal 

Jeanette Loftus

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School refusal is when a child refuses and resists going to school. It can be a very serious problem that affects a lot of children and their families. There are many different reasons that can cause children to refuse to go to school. It can be connected often with children who struggle with sensory processing disorder. 


Children with sensory processing disorder can experience sensory overload in a school setting and this can be very distressing for children which can make school a place they try to avoid. There are a lot of common causes for children to have school refusal. A child may be experiencing sensory issues at school that can lead to a child feeling overwhelmed, making school unbearable for them. 
What Causes School Refusal? Sensory Processing Disorder Parent Support

What Causes School Refusal?

Low mood or energy

Low self-esteem

Social or separation anxiety

Fear doing the wrong things

Poor relationships with staff

Rejection or bullying from peers

A preference to be home

Needs not being met

Sensory overload/dysregulation

Academic pressure

There are many fears that come along with going to school for many children. Children can fear social interaction or bullying at school. Difficulties with knowing their school work or being able to keep up with their school work load can cause them a lot of stress and anxiety. 

Ideas To Help With School Refusal Sensory Processing Disorder Parent Support

Ideas To Help With School Refusal

Ask child’s therapist for ideas

Praise them when they go

Be encouraging

Positive talk about school

Gradually introduce school

Be empathetic to their feelings

Talk to your child about fears

Develop a support system

Meet with school counselor

Help develop friendships

 There are a lot of signs to recognize school refusal. Some children will have headaches or stomachaches and other children will have excessive worrying, panic attacks or intense fear talking about school. Most children will tell lies to to not go to school.

You may notice that your child is keeping their distance from other students while at school or they may have no interest in school activities or they choose to spend more time alone.  Most parents notice their child will have behavioral changes because they usually become are more irritable, aggressive, defiant or they notice they are not doing as well academically. 

Signs of School Refusal Sensory Processing Disorder Parent Support

Signs of School Refusal

Struggles to stay at school

Crying, tantrums and anxiety

Begs to go back home

Avoids peers and teachers

Often absent from school

Frequently late for school

Refusing to go to school

Mood and behavior changes

Stomach pain and headaches

Refusing to get ready for school

Parents can identify what causes their child to refuse to go to school with some help from their child's therapists. Therapists can help with support and strategies to address your child's needs. They can assist you to slowly introduce your child back in school. 

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DISCLAIMER: I have learned a lot over the years but I am still learning. Always do your own research and exercise sound judgment. I am not an occupational therapist or a physician. I am an adult who has sensory processing disorder, a sensory parent and a Grandma. The information on this website is not medical advice and does not replace the information that your child's therapists or medical professionals give you. These are just ideas that I have learned myself over the years of being a parent and an adult living with SPD. If you are concerned for your child, please always seek medical attention through a family doctor, pediatrician or therapist. This website is for awareness and support purposes only. Each child is different and what works for one child may not for another because all children have different sensory needs. Please always consult with a professional. 
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